I AM NALA

33 | From A Survival: Periods, Bruises & Purpose| Luthando Madhlopa

Episode Summary

In this deeply emotional and powerful episode of I AM NALA, host Aya Chebbi is joined by South African activist, survivor, and advocate Luthando Modise for an unfiltered conversation about survival, healing, and resistance. Luthando shares her life story with brutal honesty—from experiencing sexual abuse as a young child, facing repeated sexual violence in adolescence and adulthood, to navigating an abusive relationship. But this is not only a story of pain—it is also one of incredible strength, purpose, and leadership. Together, they explore the intersections of patriarchy, colonial legacies, and systemic violence in South Africa, asking critical questions about justice, healing, and solidarity. Luthando speaks not only as a survivor but as a leader who continues to advocate for women and girls through her work with the Bold Women Network and beyond. This conversation is an invitation to listen, to witness, and to learn from the courage of a survivor who chooses to keep standing, keep leading, and keep loving.

Episode Notes

 Key Topics Covered

• Luthando’s experience of sexual violence from childhood through adulthood
• The silence, manipulation, and isolation that often surround survivors of abuse
• Navigating trauma while leading advocacy and survivor-centered work
• The failure of systems and institutions to protect women and survivors
• Colonialism, apartheid, and the unfinished work of national healing in South Africa
• The 2019 “Shutdown” march and reflections on feminist organizing in South Africa
• Why unity, collaboration, and “singing one song” are essential for real change
• The work of the Bold Women Network and grassroots initiatives supporting women and girls

Standout Quotes

“It wasn’t your fault. It’s okay to feel defeated—but don’t live in defeat.”
“Heavy is the head that wears the crown. I understand the crown I am wearing—and I must continue.”
“We are fighting not for protection—but to end the violence itself so that protection is no longer necessary.”

Resources & Mentions

• Million Girls Foundation – Period freedom and dignity for girls
• Disele May Foundation – Working with perpetrators for rehabilitation and accountability
• Young Leaders Connect – Ethical leadership and financial empowerment for young Africans
• Grit App – Tech-based protection tools for girls and women
• Black Women Caucus (South Africa) – Feminist movement against GBV
• Bold Women Network – Empowerment platform co-led by Luthando Modise
   

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Creator & Host: Aya Chebbi

Producer: Omom Mbu-Ogar

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