I AM NALA

38 | From A Survivor: Pendo’s Power Protecting Children from Abuse | Lydia Matioli

Episode Summary

In this deeply moving episode of I AM NALA, host Aya Chebbi is joined by Kenyan child protection advocate, survivor, and author Lydia Matioli for a powerful conversation on healing, parenting, and prevention. Lydia opens up about surviving childhood sexual abuse in Kibera and how becoming a mother pushed her to break the generational cycles of silence. From transforming her pain into purpose to publishing Pendo’s Power, a children's book that teaches body autonomy and consent, Lydia is on a mission to help children speak—and be heard. This episode is a brave and beautiful journey through survival, motherhood, and the fight to protect children everywhere. Lydia reminds us that prevention starts with language, listening, and love.

Episode Notes

Key Topics Covered

• Surviving childhood sexual abuse and reclaiming her voice
• How growing up in Kibera shaped her activism and community approach
• Writing Pendo’s Power and the need for early conversations on body safety
• The generational impact of silence—and how parenting can disrupt it
• Building trust, safety, and open dialogue with her daughter
• Working with Freely In Hope to support survivors through education and leadership
• The need for national survivor councils and reimagining prevention in GBV work
• Breaking shame, naming body parts, and giving children the language to speak up
  
  Standout Quotes

“Healing is not linear. But you will get there—and you are not alone.”
“I wanted my daughter to inherit a legacy of courage, not silence.”
“Your voice is your power. And children need to know that early.”
“Pendo’s Power started as a book—but it’s becoming a movement.”

Resources & Mentions

• Pendo’s Power – Lydia Matioli’s children’s book on consent and body autonomy
• Freely In Hope – Survivor-led nonprofit focused on education and leadership
• Companion Guide for Pendo’s Power – For parents, caregivers, and educators
• Osi Kimi and Wangokanja Foundation – Partner orgs doing GBV work in Kenya
• Survivor Council advocacy – Lydia’s call for survivor-centered policy design
  
  Call to Action
  If this episode touched you, let it move you to act.
  *  Share Pendo’s Power in your home, school, or community.
  *  Support survivor-led programs.
  *  Start the conversations we weren’t given.
  *  Listen. Believe. Protect.

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